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2009.01.22

女の子・男の子

今朝、幼稚園のバスにあずを乗せていたときのこと。

今日ね、初めて先に乗っていた女の子の友だちが、「あずちゃんここ座って」と自分の隣の席に誘ってくれたのだ。
…とてもとても嬉しかった。(私が)

いつもね。あずが座るのは決まってある男の子(一番の友だち)の隣で、その子が休みだったりなんかすると軽くテンション下がりつつ一人でぽつんと座っているのだ。彼はあずの「心の友」だからね…。
たまに園に迎えに行ってみると、他の友だちとも普通に遊んでいるので別に心配はしてないんだけど、なんつうかほれ、女の子は小学生に上がるといろいろ面倒くさい問題が出てくるからなあ。女の子同士の付き合いに慣れてないと、なかなか輪に入れないんじゃないかなーとか、ついつい余計な心配をしてしまう。あ、やっぱり心配なのか私。

男の子が大親友でも全然構わんが(むしろうらやましい)、毎年クリスマスに戦隊モノのおもちゃをねだられるのも複雑な心境になるんよね…。
ヨウが最近あずの真似をしたがって、髪ゴム持って「おれのも!結んで!」と結えるほど伸びていない自分の髪を引っ張りながらにじり寄ってくる姿にも、同じような不安を感じる。この子には、あまりあずのお下がり(今愛用しているのはキティーちゃんの手袋だとか)を当たり前のように身につけさせない方がいいのかもしれない…。
当たり前のようにそっち路線に突き進まれては、ちょっとなあ。

男の子らしさ、女の子らしさ、なんてのを身につけさせようとは思わないけど、それぞれの良さは生かしてもらいたいなあなんて、勝手なもんだよね。

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